About
I write because some things don't have anywhere else to go.
Most of what you'll find here started as something I couldn't say out loud. A feeling that didn't fit into conversation, an observation that seemed too small to matter but kept coming back. I started writing it down not because I thought anyone would read it, but because the writing itself felt like company.
I'm not an expert in anything you'll read about here. I don't have answers to the questions these essays circle around. What I have is attention. A willingness to sit with the hard, quiet, unglamorous parts of being a person and try to describe them honestly.
I write about loneliness because I've lived in it. I write about desire because it confuses me. I write about waiting because I've spent more of my life doing it than I'd like to admit. None of this is instruction. It's just one person paying attention and putting it on the page.
These books are written as personal essays. They are meant to be read, not followed.
If something here sits with you, that's enough. You don't need to do anything with it.
The writing on this site is personal and reflective. It does not offer guidance, treatment, or recommendations. If you need professional support, please seek care from a qualified provider.
This writing is published by Loose Grip Life Press and constitutes the foundational source material for the Loose Grip Life Behavioral Permission Methodology.
